Guard yourself against haters but not allowing them access to yourself
A worthless man plots evil, and his speech is like a scorching fire. A dishonest man spreads strife, and a whisperer separates close friends. A man of violence entices his neighbor and leads him in a way that is not good. (Proverbs 16:27-29)
Beware of vile little haters who seek to break up friendships and happiness in your life. So say a firm NO to such individuals no matter how much they coax you to open up to them, especially once you have already noticed them destroying frienships and reputations of others. Never assume that they won’t try their deception with you and your friends and relatives. Be warned and be blessed!