Be warned about the foolish fantasy of BDSM

All praise to the Lord God who gives wisdom to those who humbly ask him for it. O Christ our Lord, you who love the human mind, soul, spirit and body, we ask you set us free of all deceitful notions about love. Guide us by your Holy Spirit. Amen.

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The prudent sees danger and hides himself, but the simple go on and suffer for it. (Proverbs 22:3)

Despite repeated requests and warnings there are certain young women and even men who desire a mad beating of the lives! Yes a consent to beating and torture too. Who in the right mind would want such a thing?

Let me explain. There’s this inhuman and vile concept of so called romance called as BDSM (Bondage, Domination, Sadism and Masochism). This involves inflicting physical pain and at time’s injuries on each other by the couple who are in a state of physical intimacy. They choke each other, use electric shocks or may lash out each other literally! This is plain PERVERSION and not heathy love.

Such sort of sexual perversion is rightfully outlawed in a good number of countries especially the United Kingdom and to some extent Switzerland. But some young girl’s and even grown up women get influenced by fantasies about BDSM type of ‘romance’. They are deluded by silly little stories about some girl ‘taming’ a sexually immoral and sadistic man by receiving all the harm she possibly could from him. In real life scenario this can potentially result in death or serious injury despite the best of intentions. Plus there are the guys who think that it will make their female counterparts happy and so they act in a sadistic manner. At times roles might be reversed too. The result is cuts, bruises, broken teeth and bones etc. Pathetic and dimwitted I’d say is this thing called BDSM.

Such behavior is definitely not what is called prudent. Even those who write such weird tales are for fact not willing to pay for the medical treatment of any girl nor boy who gets injured by their replication of the profane sexual antics mentioned in their precious little excuse for literature. I’m certain they’d have their legal disclaimer on their books and a well paid lawyer to save their ‘reputation’ if someone wants to sue them. Get off any such foolish fantasy and warn other’s too as well.

Should a Christian man or woman ever get influenced by BDSM and apply it to their spouse?

No, not one bit of BDSM must be ever used by Christian couples. Scripture shows the right way about how a married couple must behave and any deviation from it is heresy.

In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, (Ephesians 5:28-29)

Instead of harming his wife even if she is willing, a person who claims to be a true Christian must love her with true respect. Even a Christian wife must not take marriage as a license to injure or ill treat her husband even if he wants her to do so.

The Christian couple must nourish and cherish each instead of harming each other in any way. There’s no need to accept any sexual perversion despite the spread of weird stories about immoral ways of expressing emotions and romance. Don’t be unwise to ignore the fact that BDSM actions gone wrong may result in choking, serious injury or even death. Please do care for the safety of yourself and your spouse and keep this silly thing called BDSM out of your lives.

Be safe and be holy. Christ be with you!

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Posted on October 10, 2015, in Practical living, Relationship and tagged , , , . Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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